So many men wonder how to last longer in bed. Yet only a small minority actually realizes that it is a relative concept. What do I mean? You see, at least 50% of your "performance in bed" depends on your female partner. If you always come to a climax before she does, there is no question of you being a premature ejaculator. Thus one of the keys to lasting sufficiently long in bed is in making sure she always gets her orgasm FIRST. If you are not taking care of her sexual needs first and are selfishly concentrating on your own, even a 45 minute ride will seem unsatisfactory to her!
How do I make sure she orgasms first?
This is actually very straightforward, but many guys fail to see the importance of this. If you really want to to last long enough for her to be sexually fulfilled - and not let her brand you an insensitive man - you will HAVE to concentrate on her pleasures. There are two simple ways in which you can get her to have an orgasm fast. If you can pull it off, she will not even notice when or how you got yours! There are two basic steps you need to concentrate on for now - getting her ready for sex and speeding up her pleasures during the act. Let us look at these in more details.
Step #1 - Prepare her: You HAVE TO prime your woman for the sex you are going to have in a moment. This is the most essential aspect of satisfying her in bed. There are two things you need to do that will have her ready for what you are doling out - in 10 minutes flat.
First, you need to connect with her emotionally. A woman will never respond to you if you fail to understand her sexual needs or let her know that you care about her pleasures. Second, invest in foreplay. Use your fingers, improvise orally or just caress her crazy. Remember, if you do this correctly, you will have her in raptures before long.
Step #2 - Speed it up: If you have done the first step thoroughly, she should be welcoming your speed before long. If you have given her enough stimulation, she will be ready to have her orgasm in a few moments. This is when you rev it up! Pull this off and she won't even care that you cannot last even one minute into intercourse!
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